Date: July 12, 2005
EDITOR: Sheila Zornada
Vol. 55-02
   

CLUB PROGRAM
PAST, PRESENT & FUTURE

LAST WEEK:
Elaine Vollett – D.R.E.A.M.S. – Mentally Challenged Adults
THIS WEEK: Joan Hayward – District Governor
NEXT WEEK:
Yvonne Spain – Children in Distress – AIDS Orphans
July 26: Carl Ruzycki – ID Theft – Your Privacy and Mine


LAST PROGRAM July 5, 2005 – Elaine Vollett
Developing Relationships with Exceptional Adults in Modern Society

Judy Lewthwaite welcomed Elaine Vollett, who is a Rotarian from the Markham Sunrise Club and who often attends our Tuesday lunch meetings. Elaine is the Executive Director of the Centre for D.R.E.A.M.S. Inc. which provides services for intellectually challenged adults.

Elaine took the stand and asked us if we could remember what we were doing on September 11, 2001, and we all nodded in the affirmative. She also remembers clearly February 4, 1970 as that was the day that changed her life, and when her son, John, was born. Elaine remembers a series of “no’s” and “yes’” that marked their path.

At 18 months, she heard “no” in a big way about John: no to walking, talking, attending a neighbourhood school, taking the bus to school, no from both governments about financial responsibility, no from Pierre Trudeau who was too busy with worldwide affairs. However, Elaine turned all these into a series of “yes’.”

Yes, John did walk, talk, write, attend school and amazingly, she did talk to Pierre Trudeau for about 45 minutes, raising his awareness about living with challenged children and adults. She reminded us that we are all used to no’s, such as obtaining a home, loan, car or promotion, and as we persevere with these challenges, so did Elaine with her son’s disabilities.

Elaine described her work like running a small business, but they measure profit by their clients’ achieving their dreams. One of her clients really wanted a driver’s licence and got tested 35 times before he was finally granted a driving permit.

Elaine runs the group from her home and provides services to 13 clients, with five staff members. Her daughter, Michelle, is a social worker who works with her. After developmentally challenged people reach adulthood, there are not too many programs for them. Her centre provides recreational outings and assistance in preparing to function in the working world, such as time keeping and workplace etiquette. They have varying levels of abilities and are aged 22 to 59.

Elaine then invited Marcia Toliopoulos, who is parent that uses Elaine’s facilities, to tell us about her experiences with D.R.E.A.M.S. Marcia has a 24 year old daughter, Leigh, who suffers from autism. This was diagnosed when she was three years old and although Marcia was advised that she would never walk or talk and that she should get rid of her, Marcia had already bonded with Leigh, and would not give her up.

Marcia affirmed that after public school, there are few places to go for young adults with extreme challenges. They cannot work and often just stay at home. For Leigh, without stimulation and proper ratio of workers to clients, she became depressed and frustrated, and often acted out in a violent manner.

Then Marcia heard about Elaine and with the appropriate program and concerned caregiving staff, Leigh starting enjoying life and looking forward to Mondays. Marcia truly feels that Elaine and her staff gave her daughter a second chance at life and fun!

Elaine took the stand again and asked us to open small envelopes in front of us. Suddenly the air was filled with colourful paper butterflies that were cleverly made with wire and elastic bands, which carry a message of hope. This hope is for the dreams of over 400 developmentally challenged adults that are on waiting lists and need a program like Elaine’s.

Donna Worden thanked Elaine for sharing her life with us and is glad that someone like Elaine is in these special persons’ corner.

 

 
 
Issue:
49, 50, 51, 01, 02
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The Rotary Club of Scarborough

P.O. Box 386
Station "A"
Toronto M1K 5C3

www.rotary7070.org/
scarborough/

Meets Tuesday
12:30 p.m.
at the Scarboro Golf
and Country Club
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          Officers          


President
Bruce Pettit

Vice-President
Rebecca Hunter

Past President
John Agnew

Secretary
Gary MacGregor

Treasurer
Don Hall

Sgt-At-Arms
Millie Tavener
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         Directors         

Club Service
Judy Lewthwaite

International Service
Victor Shastri

Community Service
Susan Welcome

Fund Raising
Rebecca Hunter

Membership
Brain Philcox
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Lars Henriksson
Governor - District 7070
Toronto Eglinton

Glenn E. Estess Sr.
Rotary International
President
Shades Valley, Alabama
 

Attendance

On July 5th, we had 33 Rotarians in attendance and two visitors. Chris Musselman was delighted to introduce Marcia Toliopoulos, who accompanied our speaker, Elaine Vollett, and will say a few words later.

Bruce Pettit welcomed back Nevine Yassa, who has been absent for a while.


Announcements

Bruce Pettit delivered the sad news that David Mayne’s father had passed away and that David and Dale will cut short their vacation in Florida to go to Trinidad.

Bruce also pointed out if you missed the Club photo shoot, you can still get this done at Photo Express, 105 Guildwood Parkway. Call 416-281-3014 to arrange an appointment before July 16th.

Kim Nilsson urgently reminded us about VOLUNTEERING for Ribfest. Even if you think we know about your availability, we still require this information on a Ribfest Volunteer Form, found either in The Bluffer, or on the internet. Remember, we cannot have too many volunteers! Get your friends and family involved too.l

Bruce alerted us that a sheet is being passed around asking how many Ribfest posters we each require. These are to be put up in stores, businesses, public places, etc., in other words, as many windows as possible!

He also paid tribute to all our marching volunteers in last Friday’s two parades. Over 7,000 flyers were handed out by our diligent troops.

Bruce also wanted to add to his speech last week, a special thank you to Gerry Bradler for taking the photographs all year and to Millie Taverner, who did an outstanding job as Sergeant At Arms.

Don Hall jumped up and asked everyone to stand up if they have paid their dues for the coming year. He seemed amazed at the number of people rising out of their chairs and is sure he does not have the same amount of cheques.

Geoff Dean was very pleased to tell us about the Roy Hibben Fund and told us that four outstanding students were interviewed. It was a tough choice, but a decision was made and this fortunate student will attend a lunch in September to receive this award.

Sydney Baxter-Dennis wants a big turn-out on July 12th to meet Joan Hayward, our first woman District Governor.


Woods Cunningham Wheel

The pot is still small after a recent depletion but we are still anxious to win a little. Don Hall’s big spin landed on #44 and our returnee, Nevine Yassa, won. However, she missed the ace and got just a twoonie.


Other News

Club Membership Dues – These are now due and should be made payable to the Rotary Club of Scarborough then remitted to Don Hall. The price is the same as last year.

Eye Glasses – give your used eye glasses to Gerry Bradler. These will “open the world” to needy people.

Let Judy, Audrey or Sheila know if any Rotarian or their families are ill, so we can send the appropriate gift/card to them, on behalf of the Scarborough Rotary Club.


Sergeant-at-Arms – Brian Philcox

Brian started out on Pin Patrol and ended up penniless! What good, dutiful Rotarians we all are.

Anxious to fill the buck box, Brian asked for some happy bucks, with lots of success.

Bob Johnston of transient fame, is glad they will be breaking ground for his new house this Thursday.

Susan Welcome paid a late buck, but is also very happy about her new car, now that she can start it.

Shelly Lush is also very happy, but the editor missed what he was saying.

Nevine Yassa contributed for her birthday and is glad to be back.

Elaine Vollett, our guest speaker, told us about Jeff Mittman who took her “kids” on a float in a parade, then stuck around to help out with the barbeque. It was a real fun day!

Sheila Zornada is also happy with her new car, from a famous car dealership.

This caused Dave Johnston to cough up some bucks for enjoying a couple of sales!


Declaration of Rotarians in Business and Professions:
(brought to you by your Vocational Service Group)

The Declaration of Rotarians in Business and Professions was adopted by the Rotary International Council on Legislation in 1989 to provide more specific guidelines for the high ethical standards called from in the Object of Rotary:

Be fair to my employer, employees, associates, competitors, customers, the public and all those with whom I have a business or professional relationship.


Membership Goal

Net 5 new members – By wearing your Rotary Pin, people will ask about Rotary. Why not ask them out to a meeting? Ask out a membership prospect today. Get your free prospect first visit lunch ticket from Rotarian Susan.


Rotary Foundation Target

$130 Canadian – Every Rotarian, every year! What a birthday gift to the people of the world. Send your donation to The Rotary Foundation of Canada, P.O. Box 9988, Postal Station A, Toronto, Ontario, M5W 2J2. See Rotarian Michael Cooksey for the information.


Celebrations

July 13

Sydney Baxter-Dennis, Wedding Anniversary to Beverley


Upcoming Meetings - to update your information, email Sheila at sheila_zornada@avivacanada.com

Club Service/Bluffer & Program Wed., July 13 – Audrey McCaskill’s home – 7:30 p.m.
International Thurs., July 21 – Aysan Sev’er’s home – 7:00 p.m.
Community Service

Tues., July 12 – Donna Worden’s home – 7:00 p.m.

Fund Raising Tues., July 12 – pre-meeting at Scarboro – 11:45 a.m.
Tues., July 12 – after lunch meeting to organize new year – 1:45 p.m.
Membership TBA
Board of Directors

TBA



2005 SCARBOROUGH ROTARY CLUB RIBFEST
Friday, July 29 – Monday, August 1
Thompson’s Park
Brimley and Lawrence


OUR PROUD SPONSORS:

GOLD
SILVER
BRONZE
Loblaws
Scarborough Mirror
Ash City
GTA Amusements
Labatt’s
Skywards
Active Green & Ross
BMO – Bank of Montreal
United Rentals
Central Lighting
Royal Bank
Meridian Credit Union
Transamerica
Scarborough Funeral Service
Global Television

OTHER: Michael Murton – Murton & Company
  Richard Rotstein, LLP
  Bally Fitness

See Robert Tang, Kim Nilsson and Michael Cooksey for more information to sign up a Ribfest sponsor.

Entertainment: Tom Hayes & The Twisters Band
Memphis Motion
Full Circle
Country Divas
Durham Regional Police Cruisers
The Newcomers – Favorite Vegas Stars
Karaoke – Adults and Children
Elvis – The Final Frontier
The Flashback Band
Diane Raeside & Sweetwater
Stars of the Century
….and much, much more!!

Good food, crafters, beer
And don’t forget the RIBS!

www.scarboroughribfest.com

BE A VOLUNTEER – IT’S REALLY FUN
Go on-line at the link above to register.


Duty Roster:

  July 12, 2005 July 19, 2005 July 26, 2005
Attendance: Doug Gray Derek Tarlton Derek Tarlton
Greeter: Harry Hakomaki Jim Foster Jim Foster
Introducer: Rebecca Hunter Gene Burns Doug Gray
Thanker: Sydney Baxter-Dennis David Maynes Shelly Lush

Time is nature’s way of keeping everything from happening at once. – Author unknown
Time can be your enemy or your friend. – Ray Charles (1930 – 2004) Musician